As a parent, it’s likely that one of your worst fears is that your child will be the victim of abuse by either a stranger or someone that he or she knows and trusts—particularly if that abuse is sexual in nature. Unfortunately, the sexual abuse of children is far too common, with an estimated one in five girls and one in twenty boys becoming a victim before the age of 18.
If you notice signs that lead you to believe your own child is being sexually abused, you will probably experience a range of devastating emotions, from shock and confusion to anger and feelings of helplessness. As you navigate this emotional storm, here are a few important steps to take in order to help create better outcomes for your child and your family:
At Leighton Panoff Law, we have over 35 years of experience representing victims of child sexual abuse, and our attorneys are particularly sensitive to the legal, emotional, and psychological challenges involved. As one of the leading sexual abuse attorneys in the country, managing partner John Leighton is frequently consulted to help litigate these types of cases in Florida and many other states. He is the President of the National Crime Victim Bar Association, Chairman of the American Association for Justice Inadequate Security Litigation Group, and author of the 2-volume textbook, Litigating Premises Security Cases. We have won some of the largest verdicts and settlements in these kinds of cases, including a recent verdict of $49 million for a child sexual assault survivor. To find out more about how we can help, call us at 888.988.1774
Recognizing the signs of child sexual abuse can be difficult, especially because victims often do not disclose the abuse immediately. Parents should be alert for emotional changes such as depression, guilt, shame, or numbness, as well as behavioral signs like withdrawal, acting out, regressive behavior, or inappropriate sexual conduct. Physical signs may include unexplained injuries and disrupted sleeping or eating patterns. It’s important to understand that children may try to communicate what happened in indirect or hesitant ways, so stay sensitive to signs they may be struggling to disclose abuse.
If you suspect that your child has been sexually abused, it’s essential to create a safe, supportive space for them to talk. Choose a private and comfortable environment, and speak in a calm and casual tone to help your child feel at ease. Suppress visible anger or shock so your child does not interpret those emotions as being directed at them. Let them know they are not in trouble, and that your questions come from a place of love and concern. This approach helps your child feel secure enough to open up at their own pace.
Yes, seeking the help of a trained counselor or therapist is an essential step in supporting your child’s recovery after suspected sexual abuse. While your initial conversation with your child may reveal important information, a neutral and experienced professional is often better positioned to guide them through the complex emotional process of disclosure and healing. A licensed therapist can help your child cope with trauma in a safe and effective way while also providing support for the entire family during this deeply painful time.
In Florida, suspected child sexual abuse should be reported to the Department of Children and Families (DCF). You can reach the DCF statewide hotline at 1-800-962-2873 or submit a report online through their website at http://reportabuse.dcf.state.fl.us. Additionally, you should contact the law enforcement agency in the jurisdiction where the incident occurred. Reporting is a critical step not only to protect your child but also to prevent harm to other potential victims.
If your child has been sexually abused, legal action may include both criminal proceedings against the perpetrator and civil litigation to seek justice and compensation for the harm caused. Navigating this legal terrain can be incredibly stressful for families, which is why consulting an experienced trauma-informed attorney is crucial. Such a lawyer will guide you through every step, represent your family’s best interests, and ensure that the legal process respects your child’s emotional and psychological well-being.
A trauma-informed attorney understands the sensitive nature of working with survivors of sexual abuse, particularly children. These cases require not only legal expertise but also compassion and psychological insight to avoid re-traumatizing the victim. An experienced trauma-informed attorney will be equipped to interact with child survivors in a supportive manner while skillfully navigating the complexities of civil and criminal proceedings. This dual focus on legal strength and emotional sensitivity makes a critical difference in the outcome and experience of your case.
Leighton Panoff Law has over 35 years of experience representing victims of child sexual abuse and is recognized nationally for its expertise in this highly sensitive area of law. Managing partner John Leighton is one of the country’s top sexual abuse attorneys, frequently litigating high-profile cases in Florida and beyond. As President of the National Crime Victim Bar Association and author of Litigating Premises Security Cases, he brings unparalleled knowledge to each case. Our firm has secured some of the largest verdicts in this field, including a recent $49 million verdict for a survivor. If your child has been harmed, we are here to advocate for your family and help you pursue justice.
A nationally-recognized trial lawyer who handles catastrophic injury and death cases. He manages Leighton Law, P.A. trial lawyers, with offices in Miami and Orlando, Florida. He is President of The National Crime Victim Bar Association, author of the 2-volume textbook,Litigating Premises Security Cases, and past Chairman of the Association of Trial Lawyers of America’s Motor Vehicle, Highway & Premises Liability Section. Having won some of the largest verdicts in Florida history, Mr. Leighton is listed inThe Best Lawyers in America (14 years), “Top Lawyers” in the South Florida Legal Guide (15 years), Top 100 Florida SuperLawyer™ and Florida SuperLawyers (14 years), “Orlando Legal Elite” by Orlando Style magazine, and FloridaTrend magazine “Florida Legal Elite